I HATE TO SAY GOODBYE: Fascinating stories unfold from the perspective of a precocious and sensitive girl growing up during a historical and momentous time — the rebirth and rise of a nation. Threats loom everywhere: Arab neighbors, the hardship of nature as war refugees make their home in the uncultivated promised land, Israel. Farm life, with its unique toils and delights, forbidden young love among foes, bliss and abysmal gloom, laughter and tears—reality meets fantasy, and valuable life lessons are interwoven into this stormy, tumultuous, and tragic-comic family drama. I Hate to Say Goodbye (based on a true story) takes place in Israel during the 50s and the 60s. In this humane and spiritual journey, Ruti Yudovich passionately and vividly shares her insights she calls “Moments of Deepness.” This compelling book, originally written in English, has also been translated into Hebrew under the name כּוֹאֵב לוֹמַר שָׁלוֹם (based on a true story).
“This story has the ability to stir up many different emotions-some of them very conflicting, but the author handles them well, drawing the reader into her life-story. I learned so much and I am grateful I stumbled on this wonderful memoir: it has enriched my understanding of cultures important to our world. I REALLY enjoyed learning about this amazing woman and her quirky family. I wish I could have known her Father: his love for her is what I believe we all desire to experience”. – M.M
“Loved the book ‘I hate to Say Goodbye’… I had a hard time putting it down and an even harder time saying goodbye to the tale when I finished. I found the story entertaining and inspiring. Its a spellbinding account of the Rimi’s courageous personal journey growing up in the young state of Israel both Rimi and Israel striving to survive…Rimi in a partially dysfunctional, but loving family surrounded by neighbors, friends and classmates, and Israel in a backdrop of a looming war with the Arab enemy that surrounds it.
Young Rimi is bright and strong, a winner…she overcomes barriers by finding solutions during ‘Moments of Deepness’ which I found inspiring.
A fun and moving read for anyone who seeks a unique personal account about a special child growing up in Israel at that special time of it’s inception.” – O.V.
I HATE TO SAY GOODBYE IN HEBREW:
שדות ירוקים. הרים. בתי איכרים צנועים. חום כבד מנשוא בקיץ וקור מצמית בחורף. איומים מכל הכיוונים; השכנים הערבים, תלאות הטבע, מעשי קונדס של ילדים, והורים שהיגרו אחרי מוראות המלחמה הנוראה ההיא אל הארץ המובטחת והלא זרועה… וגם דבורים, פרות, סוסים, יתושים ובעיקר עצים; הרבה עצים המסמלים את מסלולי החיים של הנפשות הפועלות. זוהי הסביבה בה מתרחש “כואב לומר שלום”.
זהו סיפור המבוסס על תקופת ילדותה ובגרותה של רותי יודוביץ’ בעמק יזרעאל של שנות ה-50 וה-60. מנקודת ראותה של תינוקת, ילדה ונערה רגישה ועירנית במיוחד, נפרשים סיפורים מרתקים אודות ישראל של אז. אהבה אסורה, התאהבויות ראשונות, צחוק ודמע, אושר עילאי ודכדוך תהומי, מציאות ופנטזיה – כל אלה נשזרים במסכת משפחתית סוערת, רבת תהפוכות וטרגי-קומית.
THE JEWISH GYPSY: Nadia Kovach’s once-carefree life as a spirited young Gypsy in 1940s Czechoslovakia is shattered when the horrors of World War II reach her doorstep. Captured with her young love, Raul, they endure the horrors of the Theresienstadt Ghetto, where Nadia encounters the Jewish people for the first time. Among them is Tuvia, a grieving man who has lost his wife and daughter. As friendships form and bonds deepen amidst unimaginable suffering, an intricate love triangle emerges between Nadia, Raul, and Tuvia, each grappling with their own losses and desires amid the dire circumstances of the Holocaust.
Lala, a fellow Gypsy from Nadia and Raul’s clan, harbors an intense love for Raul and manages to escape the camp without leaving a trace. Years later, she resurfaces, setting the stage for emotional turmoil and complicated dynamics between the trio.
After the war, Nadia’s plans to reunite with Raul are shattered by unfortunate events, leading her on a solitary journey to Israel. There, amidst the promise of a new homeland, Nadia must conceal her Gypsy identity, pretending to be a Jewish woman who returns to her homeland together with many Jews who survived the war.
Due to her extraordinary talents in languages and her spiritual abilities, Nadia is recruited for a part-time job by the Intelligence Office to assist in tracing Nazi war criminals.
Throughout her journey, Nadia continues to yearn for reunion with Raul while grappling with the complexities of her dual identity and the profound challenges of rebuilding her life in a new land.
Reviews:
• “Ruti Yudovich has crafted a masterpiece that is both enlightening and enthralling. The characters leap off the page, their relationships rich and complex, keeping readers hooked until the very end.” – Tom Greeley
• “A page-turner that delves into the little-known world of Gypsies during the Holocaust. Yudovich’s storytelling is spellbinding, weaving historical events with gripping personal drama.” – Stu Sjouwerman
• “The Jewish Gypsy is an epic, in the grand tradition of Gone With The Wind, War and Peace and The Winds of War. Her characters are alive, passionate, cruel, sacrificing, sensuous, and above all, real. So real in fact, that while reading I found myself talking to them, scolding them, cheering for them and last night actually dreaming about them. I read the last one hundred or so pages at a gallop, forgetting food and breaking appointments to find out what happens on the next page, then the next and the next. My only question now is: When does the movie come out?” – Michael Lewis
“Ruti Ydovich has that rarest of talents — she is a wonderful story-teller who passes the test of the great novelist: the ability to tell the most intimate of stories against the background and sweep of overwhelming earth-shattering events. The Jewish Gypsy is an epic, in the grand tradition of Gone With The Wind, War and Peace and The Winds of War. Her characters are alive, passionate, cruel, sacrificing, sensuous, and above all, real. So real in fact, that while reading I found myself talking to them, scolding them, cheering for them and last night actually dreaming about them. I read the last one hundred or so pages at a gallop, forgetting food and breaking appointments to find out what happens on the next page, then the next and the next. My only question now is: When does the movie come out?” – M.L